Tag Archives: Life
My Second Colonoscopy
Colonoscopies aren’t the sexiest subjects in the world. But with more young Kiwis getting bowel cancer and, indeed, the troubling rise in colon cancer world-wide, it really pays to get yourself screened.
Seven Years Ago Today, My Heart Became Flesh Again
After the earthquakes, I was pretty much always anxious, or depressed, or both. During these times, my heart felt like it became stone: uncaring, unfeeling, unable to connect to anyone else, including to myself. The Man I Loved moved away from Chicago before the quakes, but returned in 2012. After work, on this very day …
7 Years After the 22 February 2011 Quake
Today is an anniversary date in my life that I could live without. Actually, it’s so bad that the other day Noel asked me, “Isn’t the anniversary of Grandpa’s passing about this time of year,” the day after that anniversary, and I felt guilty about forgetting that. (My Grandpa passed away on 19 February 2004.) …
Me Here, at Last, on the Ground; You in Mid-Air
I’ve spent the last week or so on school holidays doing pretty much sweet nothing work-wise, and it feels great. Sorry, not sorry, right? One of the things I’ve been doing is catching up on sleep, and with catching up on sleep comes lots of dreams. In one of my last blogs (see Familiarity in …
Familiarity in Dreams
Dreams play an important part in my life. I don’t mean I follow what my dreams show me or I let them rule my life, but I find they are an important part of inspiring me and exposing the hidden places in my psyche. I have many different types of dreams, as I think we …
Remembering Oma 30 Years After Her Passing
30 years ago today (26 February), my Oma passed away from intestinal cancer, 1 month shy of her 66th birthday and about 1 month after the diagnosis. I was nearly 13 when she passed away, just shy of that age where you start appreciating the stories and history your parents and grandparents share with you, …
6 Years After the 22 February 2011 Quake
I felt somewhat guilty that I seemingly pushed the sixth anniversary of the 22 February 2011 quake to the back of my mind. As I mentioned in my last post, I seem to be living day-to-day lately (being “present”), and this has caused problems like, well, everything seemingly sneaking up on me. I need to …
